"The Marriage You Want is just on the other side of the issue you haven't found resolution to ... YET!"
LET'S BE REAL...
NO MARRIAGE GETS TO A HEALTHY FOREVER SPONTANEOUSLY!
IT DOESN'T JUST HAPPEN!
It takes intention to be where you want to be in your marriage...action!
So my question is always this simple, yet not so simple one:
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
To sit on the same coach together and feel close instead of miles away?
To know without a doubt that you can rely on him/her?
To get through an argument without feeling like you got no closer to resolution in the last 2 hours?
To feel appreciated?
TO FEEL SEEN?
To feel like you can tell 'em how you REALLY feel and they'll actually hear it?
To have more time to spend together?
To get more help with the house and the kids without it being a headache?
To have more sex?
TO HAVE MORE ENJOYABLE SEX?
To get on the same page about money?
To know you're working toward goals together instead of just going through the motions?
What came to mind when you asked yourself that question?
HOW WOULD YOUR MARRIAGE BE DIFFERENT IF YOU GOT WHAT YOU WANT?
How would it feel?
And are you Ready to go to bat for THAT...the image you just had in your head?
Then let's take one step in THAT direction together and explore a few different ways we can do that ...