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When things were feeling disconnected in my marriage, I remember lying awake at night, staring at the ceiling or curled up on my side … thinking.
Thinking about how we got to this place, about how to get out of it.
Reminding myself of what it is that brought us together in the first place.
Reminding myself of who he is … of who I am.
Eventually, I’d drift off to sleep.
And in the morning, I still remembered the swirl of thoughts the night before.
I’d sit up, swing my legs off the bed, and sitting on the edge, casually let my mind know that “we ain’t got time for this” before getting up to start my day.
See, connecting again was a process. There was no light switch. And the reality was that there were absolutely moments like this.
And as a coach, I listen to folks tell me about moments like this often.
It’s that moment when you’re wracking your brain to figure out what the heck to do!
You’ve tried talking it though.
You’ve tried approaching it loudly, softly, after sex, when everyone’s in a “good mood,” and maybe it felt like things were going well for a second, but then it flipped… again!
We often have pockets of good when we’re going through miscommunications & that looks like having the same arguments on a loop.
And I get it.
But we can’t come out of what’s REALLY going on and see lasting change if we don’t figure out HOW to approach things differently than we’re used to.
And that’s not easy when what you’re used to is what you know, when it's your go-to.
And you and I both know, while Google will show you something in a pinch, it’s too general.
And you may not easily be able to grab that marriage book on your bookshelf when you're lying awake at night.
And for that moment, that moment you say to yourself, “I don’t know what to do” …That’s the moment that made me create
The Intimate Marriage Collection (TM)!
The Intimate Marriage Collection Is ...
A simple, guided, self-paced experience designed to take you from where you are right now in your marriage, help you articulate what you REALLY want, and then direct you to the real-deal, apply-now techniques to get you there.
Why IMC? Because you have a feeling you know what needs to change in your marriage, but you don't know how to do it, how to say it differently so it's actually heard. THIS is the "how."
IMC is NOT a course.
There are no modules or lessons.
It’s a go-to how-to you can access on your phone in the middle of the night, or on a tablet or computer.
It's a place to find the answer that isn't generic Google.
It’s a curated collection of actual masterclasses I’ve done for my clients, organized in a way that gives you what you need to approach communication in your marriage differently.
Whether it’s trying to figure out how to get on the same page about money.
Deciding on how you’re going to move forward when your goals and vision look so different.
Trying to get more help around the house so you don’t feel like you're doing it alone.
How to approach your spouse when you already know they're going to be resistant.
How to feel heard and get to the resolution part quickly in an argument.
And much more.
I designed it to be simple, supportive, and content rich. And it's all available at your fingertips so you can escape the “what to do” loop all your own pace.
What would it mean to you to be in that space of clarity right when you need it?
Having the same tools in my toolbox that I’m sharing with you has been the saving grace, holy grail, game-changer in my own marriage.
The journey has been a lot smoother, and there’s no need to avoid conflict because we're confident in how to approach it.
And while this is self-paced, there is STILL real time support and connection.
The closest couples understand this ...
Intimacy is not something you do in your marriage ... it's something your marriage IS!
And they act from that place!
This is for married folk who ...
Want to go beyond the cliche of just knowing "communication is key" and actually know HOW to communicate better in their relationship!
And are ready for that extra boost in their marriage!
How to get more help around the house when you're both exhausted
How to get more time together when your to-do lists and schedules are both crazy
How to get to actual resolution in an argument when your spouse is resistance and it keeps going left
How to deal with money together as a team when you both deal with money so differently (spender vs. saver/budgeter vs. let it flow)
How to create boundaries with your in-laws and beyond
How to handle any change you and your marriage go through without the overwhelm and bickering
And SO much more ...
Before working with Imani we held a lot of our communicant in out of respect for each other’s feelings or different reasons. We definitely had a disconnect with this. But we’ve learned to be more open and more clear, and we’ve learned a lot of strategy to improve that and see eye to eye.
- Adrian & Kristan
In The Intimate Marriage Collection(TM)
The What Your Mama Didn't Tell You About Marriage E-Book
Access to a collection of 20+ practical, actionable Videos, Games, and Guides to show you what you can do differently... right now.
Access to our real time LIVE social network of married folks in The Marriage You Want Tribe (just because it's self-paced, doesn't mean you have to feel alone)
A Look Inside the Intimate Marriage Collection ...
Guidance Boxes coach you right then on what to do next! It's the coach in your pocket so you never have to guess or ask yourself "what now"?
Real Time private social network with access to me an other married folks getting intentional about their relationship too! Just because it's self-paced doesn't mean you have to go it for now.
Even just the first time we had our first session, I think that was just the consultation, it was just different from then forward. You changed our perspective, forced us to grow, you challenged us and through challenging us you made us look at stuff footsie of our own perspective. And just that tool right there has helped us so much. Our biggest thing was that we couldn’t communicate effectively. And just seeing our growth has been sooo good.
- Olivia & Antonio
A's to Your Frequently Asked Q's
What if I can’t commit to watching a video each day or even each week?
I created this as something I could delve in myself as a working from home, homeschooling, wife & mama who needs time to herself, time to create, time to just BE, AND time to STILL be intentional about my marriage. I designed this to be the simple go-to how-to I’d appreciate. You can watch whenever you like and on any device.
Now, I’m not going to sit here and write to you about it taking “no time at all” because that's not real.
BUT it is 15 minutes here, 30 minutes there, an hour here. It’s time we can spare to lean into our marriage.
When do I get access?
Immediately! After you make the payment, you'll get your direct link to The Intimate Marriage Collection and access Password right there on the confirmation page. AND you'll also add your email address on that page, so you'll also get the link and password to your email for forever access [don't skip this step!!!]. Bookmark the link on any and all devised you want and BAM!
What if I decide IMC is not for me?
Due to the digital nature of this product, we don't offer refunds at this time. So all sales are final. With that said, if you have any issues or questions at all, my team and I are just an email away! Reach out at email@example.com
I have books, and I’ve been to workshops on marriage and relationship... how is this different?
Workshops are for the moment, and sometimes it can be challenging to make shifts solely off reading alone. These video trainings are how-to go to's in the moment. And you get the benefit of hearing other folks' (folks just like you) questions and the answers. In addition, you have real time support in the The Marriage You Want Tribe network.
How easy is it to access this on the go or at a moments notice?
Once you bookmark the page, you can access it on your phone, computer, or tablet whenever you need it. And we all know folks keep their phones close!
What if I have questions or need clarity on the content?
As part of the Intimate Marriage Collection you have a special invite to a private group in my online community. Here, you can share your experiences and get clarity from others in IMC and from me as well. Also, you can email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Will you be releasing more videos in the future?
Honestly, I'm not sure, but Probably! What I DO know is that you get forever access to the product, including any future updates (AKA if and when I add more content in the future).
More Qs? Just email me at email@example.com
When I came to Imani, my marriage wasn’t the issue. But I did have things outside of the marriage that could change my marriage. Time was a big issue for me. In my field of work, I had to dedicated a lot of time to teaching, grading, and the being a wife and mom kinda got the leftover minutes. But working with Imani for my career and personally made me reflect on my marriage and allowed me to breath. I thought I could just do it, I’m a planner… but it’s not that simple. Working with Imani helped me rethink my time and now I go on dates with my husband and I’m so much happier in my career path and just in my life with my family.
When you press that Turquoise Button ...
1) Your investment will be processed through Paypal or you can use a Credit or Debit Card.
Once payment processes you HAVE TO CLICK "RETURN TO MERCHANT" Button at the bottom!!!
This will take you to the Thank you/Confirmation Page!
2) On the Confirmation Page, you'll immediately see the direct LINK to the Intimate Marriage Collection & the Password to access it. (You can Bookmark the page then) AND you'll put in your Email Address here where the Access Link will be sent to you as well!
DON'T SKIP THIS STEP!!!
3) The DIRECT LINK & ACCESS Password will ALSO be emailed to the address you gave for forever access. Subject: "Your Intimate Marriage"
Be sure to check JUNK & SPAM too! (You can Bookmark the Page here too if you didn't before)
The What Your Mama Didn't Tell You About Marriage Book (Value: $20)
Access to a collection of 20+ practical, actionable Videos, Games, and Guides to show you what you can do differently... right now. (Value: $497)
Access to our real time private group with me for Support & Clarity on IMC & access to the live community of married folks in The Marriage You Want Tribe (Value: $197)
Total Value: $714
Today's Investment: $97
I'm a straight-shooting, plant-based eating, Wife, Mama, Marriage Coach, author of What Your Mama Didn’t Tell You About Marriage, and host of The Sauce Show & The Saucy Marriage Podcast. I help married folks become master communicators in their unique relationship so they can get true peace & partnership amid exhaustion, crazy schedules, and demanding to-do lists!
I say, bump the marriage cliches that have you thinking “Communication is Key” but without any clue on how that looks in your actual life and marriage. The relationship cliches you’ve heard all your life only limit a marriage. I'm here to guide you to creating a marriage that goes beyond those limits, a marriage that feels more peaceful, intimate, and free...that feels more YOU!
I'm dedicated and uber passionate about giving couples both the techniques and confidence to tackle the inevitable tough times and truly create the solid, long-lasting marriage they want. Together, we'll find the sweet spot that only your marriage has so you can feel connected and comfortable enough to talk about anything, even the hard stuff, with less headache and more resolution and peace.