The Marriage
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THE MARRIAGE FIX IS ...
A 12-month immersion experience for couples who are ready to restore intimacy and friendship in their marriage so they can confidently move through conflict with ease, + truly feel more peace, freedom, connection!
BECAUSE YOU'RE READY TO STEP OUT OF CONFLICT THAT GOES NOWHERE ... READY TO FEEL VALUED + UNDERSTOOD!
MEETING YOU WHERE YOU ARE IN YOUR MARRIAGE ... AND TAKING IT TO YOUR NEXT LEVEL
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You've been married for a long time. You've gotten into a routine that feels comfortable, but it isn't working anymore. The connection has fizzled.
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You're "letting things go" but not really...really, you're just avoiding the argument. And you're tired. You can't picture going the next year, 2 years, or 10 years like that.
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You've been married for a few years, and you thought it would get better, but you're still arguing about the same things over and over. You knew ya'll had things to work on even before you got married, but you figured you'd work through it.
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You want to feel closer. You don't want to walk on eggshells in your own house and marriage. You're ready to know HOW to feel the change for real.
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You're about to get married, and you want to start your marriage off in the best possible way. You don't want to feel tension after a year or not know how to get through that first year of marriage with ease.
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You want to know how to communicate through anything, so yo can have the healthy, long-lasting marriage you so want!
TRUTH...
We weren't taught what it means to truly communicate in relationship.
I sure wasn't.
My parents did the best they could with what they knew, but this relationship thing is basically learn as you go.
And while there is absolutely an ebb and flow and flexibility to learning yourself and your spouse, there is absolutely something to be said for knowing how to get through that argument you seem to keep having with no change without the headache.
There's absolutely something to be said for finally feeling heard...for knowing that you are ENOUGH in your marriage.
... to feel the value you bring to the table and know your spouse understands it too.
...to not feeling like everything is "always your fault."
...to feeling a peace in the sanctuary that is your home because things feel easier in your marriage.
...to having better and more sex together.
...to not feeling guilty about time to yourself and to getting time together that feels fun again
...to feeling the freedom to be who you are, flaws and all, and know that your spouse accepts and SEES YOU for real.
... to being an example for your children of what a healthy marriage REALLY looks like! (Your marriage legacy (and theirs) starts now)
Because a healthy marriage is NOT one without conflict; it's one that has the tools to get through conflict together!
And there...right there is the missing piece.
The Marriage Fix (TM) is here to fill in that piece for you.
The marriage you want is on the other side of the tools you don't know ... yet.
The Common Habits that leave marriages disconnected ...
Shutting down when the conversation starts to turn into an argument
Coming to the conversation with the gaol of "getting heard." (There's another goal)
Acting and speaking based on assumptions instead of really knowing
Going back and forth about the symptom of the issue not the cause (origin of "getting nowhere")
Feeling like you're saying the same thing over and over again hoping they'll "get it" this time.
Avoiding the conversation you know you need to have/Avoiding Conflict
... And the The Marriage Fix Six (TM) Habits that replace them (you know, so there's a real shift you can feel)
COMMUNICATE BASED ON STYLE
(and learn how to create more peace)
Know, really KNOW your communication style AND your spouse's so you can BE heard and move the convo forward!
ARGUE FOR RESOLUTION
(Instead of feeling like you're getting nowhere)
Learn to use the answer to the potent question, "what else is true?" to get to resolution quickly and easily as partners!
ELIMINATE THE BLAME GAME
(So you don't have to feel like you need to defend yourself)
No more pointing fingers! Learning the power of individual impact will eliminate blame from any argument!
LET "CONTROL" BE AN ASSET
(and learn how it gives you the freedom to be YOU and elevate your marriage too)
Control doesn't have to be an "issue" if you understand it. It can be about taking action, and you can take action without waiting for each other to "get it" first.
TACKLE TRANSITION AS A TEAM
(Because change is inevitable in your marraige)
When your spouse is resistant to a change you want to make, there are 5 quick ingredients you've got to use to get on the same page.
MAKE THE GOOD STUFF STICK
(And discover how to keep growing without looking back)
How do you prevent sliding back to your old ways? By doing the feasibility check to ensure the shifts make sense for you, your spouse, and your lifestyle!
COMMUNICATE BASED ON STYLE
(and learn how to create more peace)
Know, really KNOW your communication style AND your spouse's so you can BE heard and move the convo forward not backward!
ARGUE FOR RESOLUTION
(Instead of feeling like you're getting nowhere)
Learn to use the answer to the potent question, "what else is true?" to get to resolution quickly and easily as partners!
ELIMINATE THE BLAME GAME
(So you don't have to feel like you need to defend yourself)
No more pointing fingers! Learning the power of individual impact will eliminate blame from any argument!
IN THE MARRIAGE FIX(TM)
YOU'LL EXPERIENCE:
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1-1 & Group Coaching Support in a 12 month immersive experience
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The flexibility, practical apply-now content, & support you need to truly create the connected partnership that's unique to you!
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Access to all online Masterclasses and Bonus
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Interim support & coaching in a private community
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6 private Coaching Calls with Imani
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12 Live, Interactive Masterclasses with Imani (with access to replay)
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12 Q&A Calls (with access to replay)
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12 Mastermind Calls (with access to replay)
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Private Email & Messaging Support
BONUSES
Marriage comes with a lot that goes beyond even the marriage itself BUT still affects the marriage.
So, that's why I bring in Experts to chat with you about the other important things in your life.
These extras are here to strengthen you & your marriage from all sides (plus the front and back!
You hear me!
Parent Coaching
Money Coaching
Life & Healing Coaching
Sex & Intimacy Consulting
This experience is designed to take your marriage from "okay" or "good" to feeling amazing, strong, fun, and close.
Yes, there will be tough seasons; that's the reality of marriage.
BUT when you have the techniques and the confidence to tackle those season, they pass with more ease and you both come out on the other side stronger.
What happens next??
Well, if you're stirred up right now as much as I was just writing this to you, then the next step is to click below, fill out the questionnaire so I can learn more about you, what you want, and what you're expectations are for moving forward.
THEN... we kick it old school and get on the phone (well, actually a video call) to see if TMF and you and I are a good fit, to answer ANY questions you have, and to talk through an individualized plan toward you feeling great in your marriage!
Ready?
Real People. Real Marriages.
ANTONIO + OLIVIA
It was blessing to Imani because last year we were in a bad place and we weren’t seeing this [their marriage] happening. He wanted to call it quits and then I wanted to call it quits, and we said alright we gonna try this one more time. We’re going to involve somebody this time, and if this doesn’t work out we’re done.
Even just the first time we had our first session, I think that was just the consultation, it was just different from then forward. Imani changed our perspective, forced us to grow, you challenged us and through challenging us you made us look at stuff footsie of our own perspective. And just that tool right there has helped us so much. Our biggest thing was that we couldn’t communicate effectively. And just seeing our growth has been sooo good.
ERICA + JOSE
I remember, I told l her that the person I was going to choose to marry, I was going to do it because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with that person. And there were times where I didn't see that happening, but now I see it. I can picture myself with her in the next 20, 30, 40 years living together. Imani used tools that were really practical for us, and that just made more sense. I like where we are right now, and I didn't think that this was going to happen in this amount of time, honestly.
KRISTAN + ADRIAN
Before working with Imani we held a lot of our communication in out of respect for each other’s feelings or different reasons. We definitely had a disconnect with this. But we’ve learned to be more open and more clear, and we’ve learned a lot of strategies to improve that and see eye to eye.
We’ve been married almost 14 years and I have learned some things in The Marriage Fix Experience that I hadn’t learned over those years, mostly things I didn’t even think to ask my husband or to ask myself. But when Imani asked me things, then I’m thinking about it. You can’t just Google this stuff because Google won’t know the questions to ask. Working with Imani in The Marriage Fix Experience has just been a great experience for us.
Hey
I'm Imani.
I'm a straight-shooting, plant-based eating, Wife, Mama, Marriage Coach, author of What Your Mama Didn’t Tell You About Marriage, and host of The Sauce Show & The Saucy Marriage Podcast. I help married folks become master communicators in their unique relationship so they can get true peace & partnership amid exhaustion, crazy schedules, and demanding to-do lists!
I say, bump the marriage cliches that have you thinking “Communication is Key” but without any clue on how that looks in your actual life and marriage. The relationship cliches you’ve heard all your life only limit your marriage. I'm here to guide you to creating a marriage that goes beyond those limits, a marriage that feels more peaceful, intimate, and free...that feels more YOU!
I'm dedicated and uber passionate about giving couples both the techniques and confidence to tackle the inevitable tough times and truly create the solid, long-lasting marriage they want. Together, we'll find the sweet spot that only your marriage has so you can feel connected and comfortable enough to talk about anything, even the hard stuff, with less headache and more resolution and peace.